Or should I say the lack of ability to think for yourself...It's no way to be.
What is on the inside of you is far more important than what is on the outside. Be careful who you influence, and what it is you teach them. You never know who is looking up to you simply because you are pretty. Respect yourself, respect those that care for you, and show some gratitude for the gifts you are given.
And most importantly: learn how to formulate your own opinions and stand up for them, no matter who it is you are surrounded by.